I got the letter from this new church that I'm attending giving me permission to wear a skirt at work. Again, I do not tell you that you are going to hell if you wear pants, it is not my place. But in return i expect for you to accept my decision to not wear pants as my answer to God's call for modesty. My old church did not do that. I got scolded. I was told i was turning legalistic, that skirts were old-fashioned, etc. etc. I am glad that this new church i had found believed the same as me. Don't get me wrong, that is not the reason i left my old church, we were in search of a new church for a while. Our spirits were not at peace there anymore, and the Lord told us to move on. I've watched our current church's congregation leave for over a few months before i got the courage to introduce myself and start going to services. My husband and children enjoy it too. Although it's a much smaller congregation, we feel at ease here and we thank God for providing us with a new church home.
Anyway, my whole point is, do not judge your brothers and sisters in Christ. The Bible says to judge those in the church, but there is a difference between judging for righteousness and judging those who make yourself feel convicted just to make yourself feel better.